My Spouse Cheated, Now What?

–  Feature Guest Post by Stephen Miller  – It’s probably the worst fear within a relationship. What if my spouse meets someone else? For ladies, the fear is that her husband will give his heart to another woman, pouring into her his feelings and attention and time. For men, it’s more so the fear that […]

How a Husband Can Really Improve His Marriage in this New Year

What were the first thoughts you had when you read that title? Honestly! “My marriage is beyond improving.” “My marriage is going pretty good, why would I need to seek improvement.” “I want to know how, but I’m afraid of the steps that I need to take.”  “Your answer.” Let’s be real honest men, the […]

A Better Way to Handle Holiday Decorations and Traditions With Your Wife

As men go, I don’t think any of us are surprised by the fact its almost Christmas, but I do think we get surprised by the amount of chaos that comes along with it every year. For myself, it’s right around mid-November that my wife starts bringing up the need to get the decorations out […]

3 Facts to Help You Get past the Misery Stage of Marriage

–  Feature Guest Post by Stephen Miller  – “I made a mistake”.  “I shouldn’t have gotten married so young”.  “We seem to have grown apart”.  “That woman is Crazy!”  We have all heard these statements combined with feelings of disillusionment, aggravation, and anger, coupled with sexual frustration, emotional frustration and maybe even spiritual frustration, it […]

Why You Need to Man Up and Show Her Some Affection

It’s not uncommon to find couples that are dating to be holding hands, hugging or even just being close. I can remember many times walking down the Mall walkway and seeing young couples all over each other. Or even being out at dinner with my wife and seeing couples that are just having a little […]

8 Things You’re Doing for Women Other than Your Wife

“Is it possible that I could be doing certain things for the women I encounter each day, but I’m not doing them for my wife?”  The short answer is YES, but let’s talk more about the reasons why this might be happening. (Photo by LightStock.com: Faith focused, Cheesy-Free Stock Photos)   You don’t need to read […]

How to Give Your Spouse What They Need and Benefit from it

For far too long, I had the following mentality in my marriage: “My spouse knows what I like and want, why won’t they do it for me?” After some years and experience in my marriage, this is my new and correct mentality: “I know what my spouse likes and needs, so I am going to […]

One Fight Doesn’t Have to Mean the End of Your Marriage

How many times have you been involved in a fight with your wife, left the situation un-resolved and felt like the easiest thing to do would be to end the marriage? Get where I am going? Here are a few of my typical thoughts I used to have immediately after a dispute with my wife: […]

How to Resolve Trust and Insecurity Issues in Your Marriage

After only a couple years of marriage, my buddy and his wife still found themselves having multiple trust issues. The major difference now, was that his wife was pregnant with their first child. That was great news, but it certainly didn’t make the trust issues any better. As she got more pregnant, her insecurities only […]

3 Ways to Ensure Your Wife’s Respect

–  Feature Guest Post by Stephen Miller  – Every Human Being on the planet yearns for respect, but especially men.  For a man, respect is the lifeblood of our emotional stability, the air our heart breathes, the milk in our Wheaties, the gas in our combustible engines.  In other words, it’s what makes us go. […]